As a fellow, certified autist (High Functioning Autism diagnosis since 2009), this article resonates with me on many points.
Since the diagnosis, my life has improved 100 fold. Not so much because I got go to some courses and group meetings about the subject, but because I was finally able to understand who I was and why. All the weird and inexplicable things I saw in my past, suddenly fit. Like a giant puzzle you've been trying to solve for 30 years and in a matter of weeks, every piece just falls into place.
And more importantly, being able to explain to others who I am and not feeling the need to try to 'fit in'. I learned it is perfectly OK to be me and this almost solely improved my mood, energy and ability to function in daily life.
For those interested, I've also written up a few articles on my experiences in various daily things:
Since the diagnosis, my life has improved 100 fold. Not so much because I got go to some courses and group meetings about the subject, but because I was finally able to understand who I was and why. All the weird and inexplicable things I saw in my past, suddenly fit. Like a giant puzzle you've been trying to solve for 30 years and in a matter of weeks, every piece just falls into place.
And more importantly, being able to explain to others who I am and not feeling the need to try to 'fit in'. I learned it is perfectly OK to be me and this almost solely improved my mood, energy and ability to function in daily life.
For those interested, I've also written up a few articles on my experiences in various daily things:
- https://jteeuwen.nl/autism/hfa.html - https://jteeuwen.nl/autism/a_night_on_the_town.html - https://jteeuwen.nl/autism/phonecall.html