Total energy is not the only factor in determining damage. The rapid movement of a bullet through flesh does extra damage due to the shockwave it creates.
Similarly, if you drop a hard drive on carpet it's probably okay, but if you drop it on concrete, you're likely to have damaged it and even deformed the case, even though in both cases the total energy to stop the drive is the same.
Similarly, if you drop a hard drive on carpet it's probably okay, but if you drop it on concrete, you're likely to have damaged it and even deformed the case, even though in both cases the total energy to stop the drive is the same.