Nothing about my post indicated that these things shouldn't be talked about and discussed. It's worth understanding how things work, even things that one personally need to use. Continue to stash ideas away and add them to your future bag of tricks. The key issue here is that people need to be more critical and self-aware of the space where their problems lie, and not assume that because something is exceeding the envelope of what they've experienced that it's entering into special case territory.
Rather my point was that people, including myself, have a tendency to believe they're in an exceptional case when they're actually not. And thus will see discussions on sites like this and assume that's what they need to do. And of course they don't understand the tradeoffs and wind up not realizing they're actually making things harder for themselves.
The classic example is scaling issues where people, again including myself, assume they have exotic scaling needs simply because it's larger than anything they've seen before. When in fact by objective measures what they have is something that could run perfectly fine on 20 year old hardware and bog standard techniques.
Rather my point was that people, including myself, have a tendency to believe they're in an exceptional case when they're actually not. And thus will see discussions on sites like this and assume that's what they need to do. And of course they don't understand the tradeoffs and wind up not realizing they're actually making things harder for themselves.
The classic example is scaling issues where people, again including myself, assume they have exotic scaling needs simply because it's larger than anything they've seen before. When in fact by objective measures what they have is something that could run perfectly fine on 20 year old hardware and bog standard techniques.