Here I take the blame. I ask from day one to work on some kind of vision. She said that we can't talk for days, so better do it fast.

I said yes (instead doing what I wanted that was to invest the time needed to agree on a vision).

Then I continued saying yes again and again, until without realizing it, I put my self in an employee mindset. Waiting for her to decide what I work as she blocked everything.

I need to move back to founder mindset and start setting some boundaries.