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I grew up with PC‘s starting with DOS 1.0. I built a career as a systems engineer, basically by being confronted with thousands of problems that took four hours to figure out because the Windows world was changing so fast there was no documentation to easily find your answer. Those same problems now take me five minutes to figure out by using AI, so I’m able to move onto the next challenge and learn the next thing. That’s one aspect that I think isn’t well recognized in the anti-AI mindset.

That fact, multiplied over 1000 different disciplines, is one of the ways that AI is going to bring amazing progress to our world.


Funny. Take a simple pop song about apology and make an academic treatise on what a heartfelt apology looks like.

On the other end of the spectrum would be to summarize it in the shortest form with the simplest words, instead of with many and multi-syllable words. How about this (not mine, I’ve heard this in addiction recovery rooms, where apologies and amends are often discussed):

In the sentence “I’m sorry I did x, but you did y”, the word “but” means “disregard the above.”


I agree with the sentiment.

But,

Whenever I catch myself reaching for “but” I recognize it is because I need to feel heard. What I did was unacceptable. But I didn’t do it in a vacuum and I need my grievances to be recognized. My belief is that omitting the “but” phrase is an act of faith. You need to trust that the other party cares about your feelings and side of the issue, too. Accepting an apology is just as delicate an act as giving one.

“I’m sorry I hit you with the blue shell.”

“I appreciate you saying that. I know you were in last place and that must have felt awful. I don’t want that for you either.”


I find you can almost always replace “but” with “and” in situations like those and end up more heard by the other side.

I understand the urge to feel heard AND whenever we bring something that may contrast we risk the disagreement connotation that “but” carries to trigger the recipient’s defensive reaction (even if unconsciously)


Depending on the relationship involved, asking the person why they think I behaved as I did often helps. Sometimes the reason they think I did what I did is more correct than what I would have put after but or and. And sometimes the answer they give shows they are modeling my motivations completely incorrectly.

First rule of relationships: adhere to the first rule of improv!

I had a coworker who talked all the time about their improv activities outside of work. They also dropped “yes, and” into business meetings with execs, and would then explain why.

They asked me if I thought it would be a fun team-building exercise to bring in their improv coach and do a class with a bunch of VPs and directors. I said no.

I understand the concept but sometimes people can be overzealous about their passions.

EDIT: I understand the concept and sometimes people can be overzealous about their passions.


What?! I think a 28 hour game of Twilight Imperium would be a great team destroying exercise.

I take umbrage with this gross mischaracterization. After no more than ten practice games to acquire familiarity with the rules, a game of Twilight Imperium rarely takes more than 14 hours.

Always leave them wanting more?

Not only that, but avoid asking questions!

You can just reverse the two phrases:

“I felt X, Y, Z, so I did P, Q, R, but I’m sorry for that because it caused you A, B, C.”

Your usage of “but” still invalidates the preceding phrase on behalf of the latter, which works here because the affirmed phrase is the apology.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with stating your side — but if you mean it, end on the apology.


I agree with everything there except the "if you mean it" part. Phrasing things imperfectly doesn't mean you don't mean it!

So, you don’t agree with the sentiment?.. /s

Bieber was clearly trying to use the word "butt" here; it just does not come across in a vocal and was obviously transcribed incorrectly.

A music recommender website oriented towards albums.

Tell it your 5 favorite albums, get an immediate suggestions list. No sign up, free to use, integrated with Spotify to hear immediate samples (or the whole album).

https://SimilaritiesEngine.com


I liked this. I agreed with most of the suggestions (primarily because I knew them already), so I know the "algorithm" is working. There were a couple of groups I had never heard before, so double success!


Someone very close to me is in their second year as a dev. I hope things don’t turn out as bad as it looks like it might. We are all going to need some luck here.


Just a big downvote storm on any and all comments I made in the thread. I didn't mind, like I said, it put it in the "controversial" category which the algorithm liked.

But it made me think a lot about anti-AI sentiment, hence this post. One poster even said "It sounded cool at first until I saw they're active in the chatgpt sub. Lame ass shit" ha.


I see. It sounds to me then this is a knee-jerk reaction due to the app having been vibe-coded, not so much due to how the app works.


Try writing this sentence on your cell phone keyboard, if you use a "swipe" type keyboard interface. Fun! (All on the top row, so it is just sliding around on the top):

Rewrite proper prototype router report!

Anybody got a better one?


I want one that can drive itself to the vet!


Using dBase3 then Clipper, I wrote this music recommending system, back in 1997.

Here it is again, reborn using Claude Code, using modern tech (Cloudflare, D1, Workers/TypeScript, Pages):

The Similarities Engine

https://SimilaritiesEngine.com


>Sorry, we don't have any suggestions yet, for those 5. But you helped improve the system for the next visitor!

The albums if you're curious:

Amorphous Androgynous - The Isness - 2002-08-05

Boards of Canada - Music Has the Right to Children - 1998-04-20

Booka Shade - Eve - 2013-11-01

Orbital - Blue Album - 2004-06-21

Rone - Tohu Bohu - 2012-10-15


Thanks!


Cool. I just dropped the following prompt on the Claude iPhone app and got a nice report out of it:

Look at the part of the website at my first link, that describes how to do an audit using their guidelines, then after that, run such an audit on my website at the second link.

https://specification.website/

Www.my-personal-squarespace-site-not-a-real-url.com


I learned COBOL in college at UNC-W on punch cards in 1980.


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